Archive for January, 2012

The Warmth of Winter

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Winter is Coming

And so will our beautiful Knight of Flowers. Over and over again hopefully. Only two more months till the next season of Game of Thrones! My anticipation is growing strong. Other things as well.

  

Model Monday *59

15-year-old Dutch model Demy Matzen is rocking the short shorts. More of him here.

  

Periodical Political Post *87

Queer News

  • Ecuador names lesbian minister, pledges to close “ex-gay” torture camps
  • Gay politician in a run-off election to serve as Finland’s president
  • Law firm says student has right to say gays should be killed in school paper
  • Teen rapes 11-year-old girl to put gay-rumours about him to rest
  • Assault on lesbian teen prompts call for hate crime legislation in Malta
  • Canadian parents outraged over queer ‘ally’ declarations on classroom walls
  • YouTube pulls ‘non family safe’ music video because it features kissing men

Other News

  • Research links low IQ and conservative beliefs to prejudice and racism
  • Homeland Security given green light to monitor American journalists
  • At -15° thousands of Poles protest against world-wide censorship law ACTA
  • Three million American kids drugged because of problems in focusing
  • After terrific year, music mafia demands extremely strict copyright laws
  • Copyright industry calls for broad search engine censorship
  

Sporty Sunday *45

  

Savage Grace

The Background

Barbara Daly Baekeland was a wealthy socialite who was murdered by her son, Antony Baekeland. Baekeland had a complex and allegedly incestuous relationship with her gay son, Antony. She attempted to “fix” her son by having prostitutes take him to bed; after this failed, Baekeland was alleged to have manipulated or coerced her son into having sex with her.

Barbara & Antony Baekeland

The Baekeland’s were determined to promote Tony as some sort of child prodigy, constantly showing off to their friends about everything he had written or drawn at school. ‘They wanted the boy to be a genius,’ said artist Yvonne Thomas. ‘That’s what struck me. I felt uncomfortable with him because I felt he felt he had to be something.’

One acquaintance remembered the Baekeland’s ordering their young son to read aloud from the Marquis de Sade’s erotic writings. Another broke off contact with the couple after hearing Brooks’s evident pride as he described how Tony had pulled the wings off a fly to see how it would affect its balance. ‘That kind of sadistic behaviour is quite common in children, but one seldom sees a father who thinks it is marvellous,’ said the shocked friend. Read on… [Warning: Daily Mail]

The Film

A sick-room torpor hangs heavily about this masterfully controlled, elegantly composed movie by Tom Kalin. It is a sensational, lurid story: erotic and repulsive by overlapping turn. And it’s pulp fact. Barbara Daly was the would-be actress, artist and social alpinist who in post-war New York married wealthy Brooks Baekeland, a travel writer and heir to the Bakelite fortune.

Her drinking, her propensity for making a scene in public, and her weakness for pseudo-bohemian adulterous flings evidently made the marriage a living hell. She could find a smothering intimacy only with her gay son, Tony Daly. Mother, father and son created a dysfunctional love triangle which ended in violence and bloodshed.

It is a story of the very rich, a milieu rarely and not always convincingly rendered in the movies: a brittle world of selfish people who are never sympathetic and often never even comprehensible. Appropriately for the leisured classes, Kalin has an eye for the mood and feeling of ennui. When Tony helps his mother from the bath, the camera lingers on her knees and she looks as vulnerable as a sickly child. This is a gripping, coldly brilliant and tremendously acted movie. [Full Review]

Savage Grace Trailer
 
  

Lapps got Style (in the 70s)

On the icy fringes of Europe, a proud and ancient people struggle to sustain their imperilled culture. Many of Norway’s 25,000 Lapps live in Finnmark County–but less than a tenth follow the twice-yearly reindeer migrations.

Young Nils Johan Mienna (photo on the left, click it to check out his fancy boots!) will be one of the few of his generation to continue the nomadic tradition. Another 20,000 or so Lapps are scattered across the northern reaches of Sweden, Finland, and the USSR. [From the September 1977 issue of National Geographic, sent in by Tim, thx!]

Johan Kuhmunen (photo below), with his dog Cammu, lives in Sweden, but the summertime range for his family’s herd crosses into Norway. The Sami tradition of learning from the elders is an important part of reindeer herding, and knowledge is passed down from generation to generation and not learned in books.

  

Freaky Friday *47


Photo by & with Jake

  

What Your Opposition To Gay Marriage Means


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Tender Thursday *19


Photo by QyaZuu