Fapping Friday *13

All this talk of adolescent fun makes me so jealous!

As an adolescent of the late 90′s/early 00′s, I don’t think there has been a worse period in time regarding lack of boys to explore with. Gay had become an “identity”, but no-one in my school was openly gay, Lord help anyone who would of been, such was the homophobic feeling (from students and teachers alike).

Ironically, I think curiosity and exploration between boys seems to have been most liberal in the 60′s and 70′s, when homophobia was rife, but there was little in the way of a “gay identity”, so boys could explore without guilt/confusion/anxiety over sexual preference or social nonsense such as the term “gay”. It was just sex, it didn’t have frankly ridiculous social connotations (especially for teenagers who may end up straight or bi-sexual).

Also, there is the increasing pressure from adults that “their children” (in much the same way they think of “their dog”, as chattel property) remain sexless innocents for as long as possible contra to the reality of earlier pubescence, the “child abuse” industry (where even children can be abusers) and the whole idea of the “sanctity of youth” and an ever increasing age when one in regarded is still regarded as a youth. Yet a day either way an you can be legally and morally deemed to be an adult, what a crazy bi-polar world we live in.

It seems the modern age has eliminated that period between childhood and adulthood, where everyone was educated in the ways of becoming an adult, something unilaterally understood in pre-industrial times.

If we were to look at these things analytically, we’d find the biggest abusers of children (mentally) are their parents followed by their teachers.

I think once the dust has settled (unfortunately, probably 30+ years from now), we’ll learn just how damaging it was to deny intercourse to adolescents just when they need it most, whilst their bodies are screaming out for it (but I suppose as long as cannon fodder is needed for more pointless wars…). The effects of a limited sex life in youth are massive, those formative years will never return and likely cannot be made up for later in life. Of course, if any Psychologist stated this now we’d never hear from them again! Science, indeed!