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		<title>By: Sam</title>
		<link>http://milkboys.org/rest-in-peace-anthony/#comment-109508</link>
		<dc:creator>Sam</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 24 Feb 2013 18:51:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Oh but we are; it is God&#039;s grace that we are born English, and God&#039;s gift that the English exist.

However, if you speak to any school teacher in Britain they will most likely confirm that when a British schoolgirl gets someone in their sights, they can turn into witches of pure evil, and create minions out of everyone close enough around them to be pulled into their web.

It is very sad that this happened, and I cannot imagine what the teachers were doing for it to even get this far as every school I know of has strict punishment for homophobic bullying.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Oh but we are; it is God&#8217;s grace that we are born English, and God&#8217;s gift that the English exist.</p>
<p>However, if you speak to any school teacher in Britain they will most likely confirm that when a British schoolgirl gets someone in their sights, they can turn into witches of pure evil, and create minions out of everyone close enough around them to be pulled into their web.</p>
<p>It is very sad that this happened, and I cannot imagine what the teachers were doing for it to even get this far as every school I know of has strict punishment for homophobic bullying.</p>
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		<title>By: t</title>
		<link>http://milkboys.org/rest-in-peace-anthony/#comment-109487</link>
		<dc:creator>t</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 23 Feb 2013 08:51:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[i hate you all for arguing...stupid fags!  we lost another brother, son, boyfriend, and who knows what else...i thought this shit was getting better but it really not...]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>i hate you all for arguing&#8230;stupid fags!  we lost another brother, son, boyfriend, and who knows what else&#8230;i thought this shit was getting better but it really not&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: Kess</title>
		<link>http://milkboys.org/rest-in-peace-anthony/#comment-109316</link>
		<dc:creator>Kess</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 15 Feb 2013 20:23:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[70s 80s more late 80s for me, born 1966, probably gay since 1966. Nobody explains it properly. Four hetor brothers, didnt stop them using me though. 24 when i came out, family didnt disown me as long i kept quiet. so 1990 started working at a university, Students are great as long as they are not in highschool. At uni they start looking after each other.Societies,Groups are great, don&#039;t ever cross them because they will ruin your bussiness (notice i said will). 
25 years working at the same Uni. Did not expect to see changes in my lifetime but i am happy to be witnees to them.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>70s 80s more late 80s for me, born 1966, probably gay since 1966. Nobody explains it properly. Four hetor brothers, didnt stop them using me though. 24 when i came out, family didnt disown me as long i kept quiet. so 1990 started working at a university, Students are great as long as they are not in highschool. At uni they start looking after each other.Societies,Groups are great, don&#8217;t ever cross them because they will ruin your bussiness (notice i said will).<br />
25 years working at the same Uni. Did not expect to see changes in my lifetime but i am happy to be witnees to them.</p>
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		<title>By: Jim</title>
		<link>http://milkboys.org/rest-in-peace-anthony/#comment-109283</link>
		<dc:creator>Jim</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 14 Feb 2013 01:06:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[What a crock:

&quot;That guy had options open to him that he did not consider carefully enoguh and apparently a loving parent which is a good basis for change.&quot; 

According to you, that know him so well? This is just presumption.

&quot;He was bullied in school? Transfer to another school. This is not even running away it quite simply is the easiest solution to an exisiitng problem. Based on the article his mother tried helping but he refused that help and instead chose to kill himself.&quot;

Easy for you to say. I can&#039;t imagine anyone or any newspaper painting the mother in a bad light after such an incident, even if there is blame to be had. You seem to think newspapers print truth?

&quot;I also believe all these sob story articles are becoming part of the problem where young people tend to ignore their options and instead just commit suicide for at least it will make a nice article.&quot;

Anyone who think it will make a nice article (and it might just be you), is obviously mentally unwell and not capable of making sensible decisions.

&quot;Bullying is idiotic and harmful yes, but killing yourself is not the only way out of it. Remember that girl that killed herself after cyber bullying on the internet? Why not just switch the internet off, or visit other forums on it? Why stay where you are obviously not liked and dont feel well?
And back to our example at hand. If his mother offered support why ignore it and go on thinking he could take on the world alone to then kill himself leaving his kid behind?&quot;

Again, trying to use rationalism with suicidal people (who are clearly beyond being rational) is ridiculous. You are presuming the mother was there, every time a child dies the mother is brought out a caring, doting type (there are very few exceptions). Maybe she was, but the newspaper is hardly going to paint her otherwise if not.

&quot;So enough with those articles already and enough with people like you preventing a serious discussion about this topic in general.&quot;

What have you added to this but condemnation of a dead boy? Suicide is the hardest, most irrational and irreversible thing one can do. I hope there is someone more caring there for you in your times of need.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>What a crock:</p>
<p>&#8220;That guy had options open to him that he did not consider carefully enoguh and apparently a loving parent which is a good basis for change.&#8221; </p>
<p>According to you, that know him so well? This is just presumption.</p>
<p>&#8220;He was bullied in school? Transfer to another school. This is not even running away it quite simply is the easiest solution to an exisiitng problem. Based on the article his mother tried helping but he refused that help and instead chose to kill himself.&#8221;</p>
<p>Easy for you to say. I can&#8217;t imagine anyone or any newspaper painting the mother in a bad light after such an incident, even if there is blame to be had. You seem to think newspapers print truth?</p>
<p>&#8220;I also believe all these sob story articles are becoming part of the problem where young people tend to ignore their options and instead just commit suicide for at least it will make a nice article.&#8221;</p>
<p>Anyone who think it will make a nice article (and it might just be you), is obviously mentally unwell and not capable of making sensible decisions.</p>
<p>&#8220;Bullying is idiotic and harmful yes, but killing yourself is not the only way out of it. Remember that girl that killed herself after cyber bullying on the internet? Why not just switch the internet off, or visit other forums on it? Why stay where you are obviously not liked and dont feel well?<br />
And back to our example at hand. If his mother offered support why ignore it and go on thinking he could take on the world alone to then kill himself leaving his kid behind?&#8221;</p>
<p>Again, trying to use rationalism with suicidal people (who are clearly beyond being rational) is ridiculous. You are presuming the mother was there, every time a child dies the mother is brought out a caring, doting type (there are very few exceptions). Maybe she was, but the newspaper is hardly going to paint her otherwise if not.</p>
<p>&#8220;So enough with those articles already and enough with people like you preventing a serious discussion about this topic in general.&#8221;</p>
<p>What have you added to this but condemnation of a dead boy? Suicide is the hardest, most irrational and irreversible thing one can do. I hope there is someone more caring there for you in your times of need.</p>
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		<title>By: Luckydog</title>
		<link>http://milkboys.org/rest-in-peace-anthony/#comment-109202</link>
		<dc:creator>Luckydog</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 11 Feb 2013 12:55:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[A very sad story and thanks Josh for bringing it to these pages for everyone to read.   I feel that some of the comments are rather thoughtless.   

Bullying by girls imho is worse than boys and the fact that boys cannot &#039;hit back&#039; physically makes them feel worthless.     

At only 15 and still legally a &#039;child&#039; he had his whole life in front of him and I really feel for his family and friends.    
I know there is support out there from a number of places but at the end of the day it is how the individual deals with it that is most important.

How very, very sad and that the demise of young lives (male or female)  will continue while there are nasty, evil people in the world.

RIP Anthony.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A very sad story and thanks Josh for bringing it to these pages for everyone to read.   I feel that some of the comments are rather thoughtless.   </p>
<p>Bullying by girls imho is worse than boys and the fact that boys cannot &#8216;hit back&#8217; physically makes them feel worthless.     </p>
<p>At only 15 and still legally a &#8216;child&#8217; he had his whole life in front of him and I really feel for his family and friends.<br />
I know there is support out there from a number of places but at the end of the day it is how the individual deals with it that is most important.</p>
<p>How very, very sad and that the demise of young lives (male or female)  will continue while there are nasty, evil people in the world.</p>
<p>RIP Anthony.</p>
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		<title>By: Real1</title>
		<link>http://milkboys.org/rest-in-peace-anthony/#comment-109200</link>
		<dc:creator>Real1</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 11 Feb 2013 07:45:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[This isn&#039;t an &#039;individual&#039; problem; only dealing with gay youth killing themselves. It&#039;s more about the society you live in and how they coexist with LGBT folks. Tolerance means that someone can still disapprove of who you are and what you do-but they don&#039;t harm you. They&#039;re just following the letter of the law...they can still hate you. Acceptance is what we&#039;re after because if we ever come close to it, your sexual orientation won&#039;t matter to anybody except who you are fucking.

I hurt for each and every one of these boys and the fact that they existed on social media and there&#039;s often videos of them, just makes it that much worse. However, the societies they live in have done ever so poorly on getting resources to them and making them understand all the choices they have at hand. A society that just tolerates LGBT folks is not one that nurtures them as equals.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This isn&#8217;t an &#8216;individual&#8217; problem; only dealing with gay youth killing themselves. It&#8217;s more about the society you live in and how they coexist with LGBT folks. Tolerance means that someone can still disapprove of who you are and what you do-but they don&#8217;t harm you. They&#8217;re just following the letter of the law&#8230;they can still hate you. Acceptance is what we&#8217;re after because if we ever come close to it, your sexual orientation won&#8217;t matter to anybody except who you are fucking.</p>
<p>I hurt for each and every one of these boys and the fact that they existed on social media and there&#8217;s often videos of them, just makes it that much worse. However, the societies they live in have done ever so poorly on getting resources to them and making them understand all the choices they have at hand. A society that just tolerates LGBT folks is not one that nurtures them as equals.</p>
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		<title>By: Real1</title>
		<link>http://milkboys.org/rest-in-peace-anthony/#comment-109199</link>
		<dc:creator>Real1</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 11 Feb 2013 07:29:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I would urge you(and other like you), to take the plunge. You might have misguided homophobes doing the &#039;witch hunt&#039; thing and trying spread carp about you. But if you&#039;ve been careful and haven&#039;t done anything improper, you&#039;ll come out of it....I know by experinece.  

Being afraid to do the right thing doesn&#039;t help the young adults at all.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I would urge you(and other like you), to take the plunge. You might have misguided homophobes doing the &#8216;witch hunt&#8217; thing and trying spread carp about you. But if you&#8217;ve been careful and haven&#8217;t done anything improper, you&#8217;ll come out of it&#8230;.I know by experinece.  </p>
<p>Being afraid to do the right thing doesn&#8217;t help the young adults at all.</p>
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		<title>By: Michael</title>
		<link>http://milkboys.org/rest-in-peace-anthony/#comment-109197</link>
		<dc:creator>Michael</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 11 Feb 2013 06:16:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[What is going on here Josh. I have to type my name and e-mail in everytime I go for a comment. Are you trying to tell me I should stay away. If so just say so. Are you a loving human,or a evil human,or just a sterotype. @Seb and tim. Your comments make so much sense, because putting these suicides in a glorious but sad picture does not help at all. Now the mother feels she should have done more. The girlfriend most likely feels that she didn&#039;t do more then she did. I didn&#039;t see where he had a daughter, but if so then he just gave up on her. It&#039;s sad when a young person who has so much to live for just calls quits on life. May Anthony rest in peace.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>What is going on here Josh. I have to type my name and e-mail in everytime I go for a comment. Are you trying to tell me I should stay away. If so just say so. Are you a loving human,or a evil human,or just a sterotype. @Seb and tim. Your comments make so much sense, because putting these suicides in a glorious but sad picture does not help at all. Now the mother feels she should have done more. The girlfriend most likely feels that she didn&#8217;t do more then she did. I didn&#8217;t see where he had a daughter, but if so then he just gave up on her. It&#8217;s sad when a young person who has so much to live for just calls quits on life. May Anthony rest in peace.</p>
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		<title>By: Jack</title>
		<link>http://milkboys.org/rest-in-peace-anthony/#comment-109190</link>
		<dc:creator>Jack</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 10 Feb 2013 23:23:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[R.I.P Anthony, our hearts are with you and will be forever. Lets hope this never happens again x]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>R.I.P Anthony, our hearts are with you and will be forever. Lets hope this never happens again x</p>
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		<title>By: Asiffeta</title>
		<link>http://milkboys.org/rest-in-peace-anthony/#comment-109184</link>
		<dc:creator>Asiffeta</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 10 Feb 2013 20:16:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[&#039;Love&#039; and &#039;evil&#039; are subjective values. One man&#039;s meat is another man&#039;s poison, as they say. That is however not quite the same as saying they are &#039;useless stereotypes&#039;.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8216;Love&#8217; and &#8216;evil&#8217; are subjective values. One man&#8217;s meat is another man&#8217;s poison, as they say. That is however not quite the same as saying they are &#8216;useless stereotypes&#8217;.</p>
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