Media

Coming Out Simulator 2014

For a young queer person, coming out in North America can be really hard. Everyone has a different experience, but inevitably, it changes your life and it changes your relationships. It can also be a horrible nightmare. Kids are routinely bullied, not accepted by their families and even kicked out of their homes for being queer. The statistics are depressing, and the reality of the situation is that it’s scary for many, whether their parents, loved ones and friends ultimately accept them or not. But it’s also the only way forward for most queer people, since the alternative is to live a lie.

Coming Out Simulator 2014, by indie developer Nicky Case, is a deeply personal adventure game that details precisely that struggle with humour and gut-punching emotional honesty. It allows the player to join them, and in fact, play as them, as they come out to their parents. Case’ game is inspired by real-life events, they call it "emotionally authentic, factually inaccurate."

"The main arc of the story, coming out to my parent and it ending in me having to break up with my boyfriend, is true," Case told me in an email. "More or less. A lot of the dialogue [consists of] things my mother actually said, such as ‘Don’t let the gays recruit you’ or ‘Which one of you is the woman in the relationship?’ My father did punch me, as he does in one ending of the game, but he didn’t hit me when I came out, since he left the family long before."

"And his violent tendencies [were] partially why my mother divorced him."

Case made the game partially as an enrichment exercise — they wanted to experiment with a narrative-heavy game, and work on story writing skills. The Nar8 game jam — which Coming Out Simulator 2014 debuted at — gave Case "an excuse and a deadline." But the primary reason was an opportunity to explore a traumatic, life-changing event.

I finally feel secure enough to … basically … broadcast my personal story

"Four years after my messy coming out experience, I finally, finally feel secure enough in my emotions and identity to … basically … broadcast my personal story to tens of thousands of players worldwide. Y’all get to see my dirty laundry now."

via polygon

  

I know You love to fall

I know you love to fall – Message To Bears

  

James, Bars & Melody

Last night’s final performances by James Smith and Bars & Melody

James Smith sings Otis Redding's Try a Little Tenderness | Britain's Got Talent 2014 Final

Bars & Melody perform Twista feat. Faith Evans's Hopeful | Britain's Got Talent 2014 Final

  

Bars & Melody @Ellen

Looks like these two are getting around…

Adorable Duo Bars and Melody

Submitted by Tom

  

The Way He Looks

Hoje Eu Quero Voltar Sozinho: Leonardo is a blind teenager dealing with an overprotective mother while trying to live a more independent life. To the disappointment of his best friend, Giovana, he plans to go on an exchange program abroad. When Gabriel, a new student in town, arrives at their classroom, new feelings blossom in Leonardo making him question his plans.

Trailer Oficial – Hoje Eu Quero Voltar Sozinho (The Way He Looks) English Subtitles

IMDb | Official Page | Tumblr

  

Bars & Melody

Of course these shows are overproduced to hell and the people behind them care a lot more about pulling our emotional strings than the music itself but hey, it seems to work and good for these lads that they got their message out. Thanks to everyone who submitted this, Robert was the fastest.

Bars & Melody – Simon Cowell's Golden Buzzer act | Britain's Got Talent 2014

  

We are Unstoppable!

Eurovision 2014 is over and the Queen of Europe was crowned (see below) with a clear message to Putin and people like him that you can’t get the queer out of Europe. Sweden came in 3rd, Norway should have gotten a few more points, Poland was quite interesting and Italy gave us an Empress Rome can be proud of ;) Let us know in the comments who you were rooting for!

Conchita Wurst – Rise Like a Phoenix (Austria) 2014 LIVE Eurovision Grand Final

  

Jongens

During his summer holidays, Sieger, 15, is training in the new athletics team for the national relay championships. When he meets the intriguing and unpredictable Marc, he discovers feelings that go far beyond their ordinary friendship. Sieger engages in a lonely struggle with himself when Marc reciprocates his feelings, and the championship moves closer…

BOYS (Jongens) – Trailer Eng Sub

Submitted by Sasha

  

Always My Son

The Family Acceptance Project (yeah, they actually use the abbreviation FAP) is working on a short documentary about what it is like for a religious family to realise they have a gay kid. You can read more about the family’s story here.


Submitted by Roel

  

Applause

Now that’s quite a voice…

Soufjan – Applause| The Voice Kids 2014 Germany | Blind Audition